Bismillah.
A few days ago, a friend of mine brought to light on common trust issue between man-woman, especially concerning married couple.
"It is hard for me to trust any man in this world,"
"There were too many poor cases on marriage that I have witnessed, -and most of them because of man, therefore is there even any light for me to hope for a good man?"
The issue came because she had been introduced by her family of this one guy, probably her-future one.
To add, the current media is extensively covering on wrecked marriage issue, as if those dramas are trying to normalise cheating, scandalising and the third person.
Some of us too asked ourselves at times, if we too have to go through such situation some day in the future? "Am i strong enough if I were to be put in that shoes?"
Merelakan Seseorang yang Kita Cintai.
"Bagaimana cara untuk kita rela apabila kita berdoa meminta sesuatu daripadaNya, tapi diberikan sebalikNya?"
"Berlapang dada dengan takdir Allah."
The only answer I have found during my journey is to love moderately on anything on this world. Nothing is permanent. That "I only love you" from a man can go to "I love you but I love her too," anytime. Not trying to be feminisim, that it can happen otherwise too. Only in this context, it is from a group of woman.
The only thing that is permanent, love of Allah and Rasullullah. Because only with His Mercy, He will save us in the hereafter. Only Allah who will be there, during both happy and sad times, with only prayer to Him, this heart can move forward through the healing from such as broken promises.
But there will be a time where we might be lost within a bed full of roses. May Allah guides us in seeing those rose thorns before it pricks our eyes.
A few days ago, a friend of mine brought to light on common trust issue between man-woman, especially concerning married couple.
"It is hard for me to trust any man in this world,"
"There were too many poor cases on marriage that I have witnessed, -and most of them because of man, therefore is there even any light for me to hope for a good man?"
The issue came because she had been introduced by her family of this one guy, probably her-future one.
To add, the current media is extensively covering on wrecked marriage issue, as if those dramas are trying to normalise cheating, scandalising and the third person.
Some of us too asked ourselves at times, if we too have to go through such situation some day in the future? "Am i strong enough if I were to be put in that shoes?"
Merelakan Seseorang yang Kita Cintai.
"Bagaimana cara untuk kita rela apabila kita berdoa meminta sesuatu daripadaNya, tapi diberikan sebalikNya?"
"Berlapang dada dengan takdir Allah."
The only answer I have found during my journey is to love moderately on anything on this world. Nothing is permanent. That "I only love you" from a man can go to "I love you but I love her too," anytime. Not trying to be feminisim, that it can happen otherwise too. Only in this context, it is from a group of woman.
The only thing that is permanent, love of Allah and Rasullullah. Because only with His Mercy, He will save us in the hereafter. Only Allah who will be there, during both happy and sad times, with only prayer to Him, this heart can move forward through the healing from such as broken promises.
But there will be a time where we might be lost within a bed full of roses. May Allah guides us in seeing those rose thorns before it pricks our eyes.
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