Art of support

Bismillah. 

"Imposter syndrome is the feeling that your achievements don’t matter. That you only scraped by because of luck or by fooling others into believing in you. You feel deep insecurity about your work and accomplishments, always anxious that you’ll be exposed as a fraud."

Before I started working as a housekeeper back then, I was truly anxious. Because that was my first work ever. I was anxious if I could not deliver to their standard. Although it was just a "cleaning the room" task. 

I believe I did all my best for the task eventually. Even my friend and I had been assigned for a deep cleaning task because "we are among those who are really good at it," said my friend. 

I don't want to let myself into imposter syndrome but at the same times I don't want to push myself over the limit neither be riak nor be too proud till I feel like I am all the best than many. May Allah saves us from those feelings and whenever it comes into our heart, He will guide us back to the right path. 

Here comes emotional and spiritual support into the play. The "I know you can do this," "Well, all the best I believe in you" "Allah will help you, Allah knows your limit the best."

I have come to think that marriage is not a bad idea at all, for emotional and spiritual support. Maybe? Well, if your partner is supportive enough. Ah, this remind me to the latest movie I admire, Habibie and Ainun 3. 

May we all find our supportive one. Because at the end of the day, he/she is the one who we are going to share the "susah dan senang" "pelangi dan hujan" and 20,30,40,50 years of love.

ok this one is actually from habibie and ainun 2